Marriage never happening?

[ronodeno]

I got the fathers permission to wed about 30 days ago and he's been sending me messages almost daily telling me to come to the Arbor for the wedding. I go there, no ones there and no options for it. I go find him in Lannisport and he's with the rest of the vassals and says it will happen after the campaign or when there is a feast.

There was then a tourney and a feast there, I arrived, won the tourney and looked around and no option (the father wasn't there either) the feast ended and they all left.

Does it usually take this long? Usually I get married instantly.

A bit of info as well, the lords of the reach are gathered in Lannisport and the entire Lannister army Is in casterly rock a stones throw away if that makes any difference.

[Realize]

If the faction in a campaign, wed wouldn't happen. You've to wait til the end.

[ronodeno]

If the faction in a campaign, wed wouldn't happen. You've to wait til the end.

It's been 2 months, any idea when they should end?

[Realize]

Dunno when, I've waited to marry Cersei about 50 days. They were at war with North btw.

[jdm311]

I've waited hundreds of days to marry in previous games. It just never seemed to happen. Since then, I've learned that marrying a lady in a faction that wasn't at war while my faction wasn't at war causes the wedding to happen fast.

[King J]

You could turn cheatmenu on and force your faction to feast