Can't marry Arya Stark - 3.0 version

[yarex]

Hello,

Trying to have a wedding with Arya Stark, and have relation over 45 with her, but every time i try to propose wedding she just tells me, that
i have to ask her father.

The problem is, that her father is dead, but users on the forum mentioned, that its possible to marry her or her sister, so how?

Do i need higher persuation skill or yet higher relation with her to aggree?


Other question is, that am in a faction and have a castle. How do i get master of coin? Can't find that option anywhere

[meldragon]

U can wedd Arya in 3.0 but U must elope with her first, I've done it in my last play...

Master of Coin should show up in your hall instantly with Master of Laws...

[Montblanc]

Both Stark sisters require eloping for marriage, same with Myrcella Baratheon because none of them have their father in-game so you can't ask for their hand, you must build relationship until any of them agrees to marry by eloping. You can do the same for any marriage prospect but since with most you can just ask for their hand, which costs less time to achieve, and also since eloping pisses their families off and makes you lose some relations with their respective faction, eloping is usually a last resort or for these ladies you can't marry any other way.

[yarex]

85 relationship with her now, so will try until one hundred. Hopefully by then she will fall in love and we'll get married and have many sons and be happy.

[meldragon]

85 relationship with her now, so will try until one hundred. Hopefully by then she will fall in love and we'll get married and have many sons and be happy.

She did agree me when I had about 60 relationship with her... Perhaps she's allready taken? I've heard that is the case with Sansa now, but had no such problems with Arya in my game. More problems I've had with persuing her to sleep with me...

[yarex]

Now 100 relationship and still can't marry her. Every time i visit her and choose option to force elope, i get messare, that her dad would never allow it.

Should i be marschall or wait for tournament? It's weird, because i think that if she would be already married, then she would not keep giving me quest to visit her like every week or so.


- also i'v counquered city and game offered me to appoint master whisperer that appeared in the hall, but no master of coin. In my first castle i dont have any of those two (coin/whisperer), how should i force game to make them appear? (i assume that they should be in the castle/city hall and now somewhere else)

[meldragon]

Now 100 relationship and still can't marry her. Every time i visit her and choose option to force elope, i get messare, that her dad would never allow it.

Should i be marschall or wait for tournament? It's weird, because i think that if she would be already married, then she would not keep giving me quest to visit her like every week or so.


- also i'v counquered city and game offered me to appoint master whisperer that appeared in the hall, but no master of coin. In my first castle i dont have any of those two (coin/whisperer), how should i force game to make them appear? (i assume that they should be in the castle/city hall and now somewhere else)

In case of whisperer, he apears only when U get a city, but master of coin should be there from the first time U captured any fief... I've never had such issues, so I'm guessing something could be wrong with your save/game/mod but have no clue what.